![four hands clinking champagne flutes](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/18132c9/2147483647/strip/true/crop/3000x2000+0+0/resize/2000x1333!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd6%2F8b%2F2442db154d6da42c23b99482fd49%2Fla-oe-radke-newyears-resolutions-lede.jpg)
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![I've never followed through on a single new year's resolution](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/9bd4146/2147483647/strip/true/crop/962x962+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F0c%2F67%2F0e3fa8824eabb6a96e74437b54dc%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-01.jpg)
![well over half of americans make resolutions but only about 4% of people are still keeping with them](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/9cc7ec8/2147483647/strip/true/crop/961x962+0+0/resize/2000x2002!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F63%2F2c%2F0d8ea3ba441a85d8268f433f2d01%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-02.jpg)
![the practice of resolutions has roots all the way back to ancient rome when romans made promises to Janus, god of beginnings](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/22ca26d/2147483647/strip/true/crop/962x961+0+0/resize/2000x1998!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fc6%2F64%2F96dd91684996ae785cc1a24edb26%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-03.jpg)
![I don't know how romans felt when they let their resolutions lapse, today it's often a point of shame](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/63729a7/2147483647/strip/true/crop/961x961+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F43%2F06%2F5a1d5ad944279bc1286f1f916047%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-04.jpg)
![who cares if you don't make it through those workout videos come march? so what if your plan was too ambitious?](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/c68d0b4/2147483647/strip/true/crop/962x962+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F8a%2F64%2F6af9a0084c97b35c10fc123e14c3%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-05.jpg)
![the pleasure of a resolution is the sense that we're participating in something communal, trying to make ourselves better.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/74ee0ba/2147483647/strip/true/crop/962x965+0+0/resize/2000x2006!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F04%2F9b17e43048d58af75cb5d3a5a5a6%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-06.jpg)
![resolutions help soften the blow of all the things we failed to accomplish last year and give us hope for who we may become](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/df863c6/2147483647/strip/true/crop/962x962+0+0/resize/2000x2000!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fca%2F1b%2F74735d5d45b39d5b8565a056f90c%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-07.jpg)
![this year I'm resolving to cook healthy meals three times a week. will I still be soaking legumes in april?](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/94b55c2/2147483647/strip/true/crop/963x962+0+0/resize/2000x1998!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F93%2F09%2F25e69ea24d659b1f94bc82a11fba%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-08.jpg)
![I probably won't make it past February, and I'm totally fine with that.](https://ca-times.brightspotcdn.com/dims4/default/ffe5734/2147483647/strip/true/crop/961x963+0+0/resize/2000x2004!/quality/75/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalifornia-times-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fa6%2F43%2Fe1eabd704f83833016bbfb45812b%2Fla-oe-radtke-newyears-resolutions-09.jpg)
Kristen Radtke is the author of two books, including “Seek You: A Journey Through American Loneliness.” She is the associate creative director at The Verge. @kristenradtke
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